Tuesday, August 18, 2009 by Sekse Girl.

A few party guests had suggested a ‘7 day orgasm challenge’ using their new purchases.  It was a comical idea, however, I do think it would be interesting to review the outcome.  We discussed the different possible benefits from doing this including, less stress, happier husband and more relaxed with the kids just to name a few. (I am confident this has been done before on a larger scale, by the way.)

Have you heard the saying ‘the more you do it, the more you want it’.  Do you think that is true?   Let’s treat orgasms like food and go on an orgasm diet!  When you go without a specific food, you stop craving it.  Hmm…if we go without having orgasms do we stop wanting them?  If we eat a specific food consistently and it is easily accessible, we tend to crave that food.  Many lifestyle changes work the same way if you create the habit.

Not everyone is fortunate to want sex daily.  Men generally want it more than a woman so what is a woman to do?  It can put stress on our relationship.

Sekse is looking for a few woman interested in trying this and then reporting or blogging about the results.  Just for fun!  If interested, contact us at sekse@sekseparties.com.

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Tuesday, August 11, 2009 by Sekse Girl.

Pole dancing has been working it’s way into women’s lives for quite sometime now.  Yes, we all are aware how amazingly SEKSE it can be…but did you know it also makes for a fabulous workout?  While SEKSE focuses on the sensuality and fun aspect of pole dancing instead of the fitness benefits, we also think every woman should experience pole dancing in one form or another.  Our pole dancing parties are quite the trend for bachelorette parties, ladies’ night out, birthdays, mom groups, buncos and more.   After participating in a SEKSE pole dancing party, you will have gained the confidence to shake that ass and flaunt your wonderful curves.  You will also have worked your muscles, strengthening your thighs, core muscles, shoulders and more!  While wearing heels!

Let’s schedule a party!

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Monday, August 3, 2009 by Sekse Girl.

Planning a home party or other quaint gathering? I saw this ‘trick’ a long, long time ago and since I used it recently at a bridal shower I planned, I thought I would pass it on. When purchasing your designed themed paper products such as napkins and paper plates purchase a pack of the designed set along with packages of non-designed ones but still match in color. It takes a bit of time but alternate each designed napkin with the plain colored napkin. For example, if you are using the super fun penis napkins for your ladies’ night out party, purchase a pack of plain yellow napkins to alternate.

Sekse girls are thrifty!!

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Tuesday, July 28, 2009 by Sekse Girl.

Do you know the skin is the largest organ?  This makes massage extremely beneficial.  There are different types of massage which provide various benefits.  In our industry, we focus on sensual massage.  This type of massage is probably the easiest and most enjoyable to give and receive!  Lets look at a few benefits from sensual massage. These results are magnified if done between lovers.

•  reduced stress
• improved circulation and brain function
• provide a release of muscle soreness and emotional troubles
• increased intimacy

Sensual massage requires no formal training and that is what makes it so personal between lovers.  It is the ultimate foreplay if the massage is allowed to blossom into a sexual encounter.  The activity also makes a great inexpensive gift.  Grab your oil, lock the kids and dogs out, light some candles, turn on some music and see what happens!

We can assist you in sensual massage oils, instructional books and other items to help you create your setting for the most delicious massage!

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Friday, July 24, 2009 by Sekse Girl.

How many of you received your first adult toy from a friend or boyfriend?  I venture to say that half of adult products are purchased for someone else including purchases of  serious, sensual gifts or gag gifts just for fun.

I recently had the pleasure and excitement of creating a customized ’sensual product’ basket for a man who was in need of a birthday gift for his wife.  The basket included Kama Sutra massage oil, intimate shave cream (Coochy), naughty dice, Sex Checks, Ultimate Instinct pheromone cologne, lingerie catalog and lube samples.   These are the items he chose within his budget.  For the guys out there (and gals), we can assist you with putting together the perfect gift basket for your occassion.

Or perhaps you want to surprise your special person with a pole dancing lesson/party.

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009 by Sekse Girl.

Themed pole dancing parties are a great way to achieve ultimate guest participation. Your theme should be something most of your friends are comfortable with. This can cause choosing a theme to be a bit difficult so keep the theme ‘doable’.  What I mean is, if most of your guests don’t wear bikinis,  don’t theme your party ’stripper’.  You will end up with very low participation and many might not even want to attend.  Here are a few tried and successful suggestions for themes:

• bachelorette (of course)
• strip club - dress like a stripper!
• penis
• color - choose your fave color or pattern and have everyone wear it
•  pirate
• school girl - classic and perfect for fall time of year!
• sexiest shoes - or other attire including tube tops, tanks, shorts, skirts
• lingerie
• movies - guest arrive in character
• martini - all drinks no matter what are served in martini glasses. ask your guests to bring their favorite martini recipe!
• country origin
• cowboy/cowgirl

What creative themes have worked for you?  Which ones totally sucked?

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Monday, July 20, 2009 by Sekse Girl.

Obviously, bachelorette parties are a huge portion of our business. Many of you have participated in a bachelorette party or even the planning of one. Even guys are involved in some way even if it means just listening to the woman plan or handing over a few bucks to help out financially. We are finding that due to the economy and the stricter DUI laws, many bachelorette parties are staying home or being hosted in hotel rooms.

What are your thoughts on keeping the party ‘home’? Do you think it is more fun? Why?

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Monday, July 20, 2009 by Sekse Girl.

The license plate of my Tahoe reads “SEKSE”, which is the name of my business of course.  http://sekseparties.com.  Of course it is a play on the word sexy, and it is also an acronym for “Sensual Erotic Kinky Sexy Exotic”.  So when you roll up on my Tahoe at the traffic light, what does the license plate say to you? What goes through your mind?

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