Archive for April, 2010

Real Meaning to Lingerie Party

Monday, April 19th, 2010

I had a fabulous party this weekend.  The occassion was for a 33rd birthday party.  They requested the pole and products so I was game! 

I arrived to find all 15 VERY attractive ladies dressed in lingerie.  For once, I had too many clothes on.  While I didn’t need to instruct them on very many moves since they all seemed to know what to do, I had a blast!  Parties like this are so much fun.  They made me feel very welcome by including me in their tequilla shots offering of their very fine spread.  These ladies really knew how to party. 

I finished up the party early & let them keep the pole overnight.  Of course it was a win-win situation so I could continue on to my next event.  :)

Motivation Requires Change

Wednesday, April 14th, 2010

Wow, 4 months since I wrote!  You could say I have been in a slump regarding Sekse parties.  Don’t fret! I am still Sekse but business hasn’t been that exciting and well, I am feeling a bit burned out with vibrators, lubes, etc.  Currently, the pole dancing parties are the only parties I look forward to anymore.  Like most sales jobs, selling the same thing over & over can really get old unless you change it up.  You would think, like sex, selling sensual products could never ‘get old’.  You would be mostly correct since, like sex, if it gets old, try a new position, new partner (j/k..sorta) or new toy.  Many options are available for this such as doggystyle, reverse cowgirl, oh….nevermind. :)

I had planned on attending ILS this week but it didn’t work out.  Attending the International Lingerie Show in Vegas has been a great motivator for the past several years but this time I need more than that.  I could add new products, market myself to a different crowd, do more networking, reinvent my image or simply improve my in-home demonstration.  I have done all of these in the past and while they do help, the motivation slowly went away.  I am at a crossroads with Sekse.  I’m looking for some fresh ideas.  It might be time to take Sekse to the next level and actually invest some serious money & time into this gig. 

I feel good about this.  I think I will test the We-Vibe II now.