April 19th, 2010
I had a fabulous party this weekend. The occassion was for a 33rd birthday party. They requested the pole and products so I was game!
I arrived to find all 15 VERY attractive ladies dressed in lingerie. For once, I had too many clothes on. While I didn’t need to instruct them on very many moves since they all seemed to know what to do, I had a blast! Parties like this are so much fun. They made me feel very welcome by including me in their tequilla shots offering of their very fine spread. These ladies really knew how to party.
I finished up the party early & let them keep the pole overnight. Of course it was a win-win situation so I could continue on to my next event.
April 14th, 2010
Wow, 4 months since I wrote! You could say I have been in a slump regarding Sekse parties. Don’t fret! I am still Sekse but business hasn’t been that exciting and well, I am feeling a bit burned out with vibrators, lubes, etc. Currently, the pole dancing parties are the only parties I look forward to anymore. Like most sales jobs, selling the same thing over & over can really get old unless you change it up. You would think, like sex, selling sensual products could never ‘get old’. You would be mostly correct since, like sex, if it gets old, try a new position, new partner (j/k..sorta) or new toy. Many options are available for this such as doggystyle, reverse cowgirl, oh….nevermind. :)
I had planned on attending ILS this week but it didn’t work out. Attending the International Lingerie Show in Vegas has been a great motivator for the past several years but this time I need more than that. I could add new products, market myself to a different crowd, do more networking, reinvent my image or simply improve my in-home demonstration. I have done all of these in the past and while they do help, the motivation slowly went away. I am at a crossroads with Sekse. I’m looking for some fresh ideas. It might be time to take Sekse to the next level and actually invest some serious money & time into this gig.
I feel good about this. I think I will test the We-Vibe II now.
January 1st, 2010
Happy New Year! Many of us create New Year’s resolutions which typically include bettering ourselves in one way or another. If those resolutions are to have improved relationships, more romance, or just more wicked bedroom adventures, here are some ways to keep your resolutions.
- Have more date nites! Even if you are married, schedule a regular block of time to go out for cocktails with your man. Cap off the night using a flavor of lube that matches the flavor of cocktails or dessert you had earlier.
- Dress up! Over-dress for the occasion to show your man that you still turn heads. Make sure he knows about the sexy lingerie you are wearing under your outfit to keep him charged up for fun when you finally get alone.
- Give each other coupons to redeem for breakfast in bed and massages. Use them!
- Try something new… some light bondage, a new toy, a new location. If you liked it, do again!
- Take advantage of every occasion to dress in a sexy costume. Don’t wait for Halloween. You can find a sexy outfit for St. Paddy’s Day and a sexy bunny costume with your own vibrating egg will make colored eggs fun again for adults.
November 2nd, 2009
Halloween is finally over! It is one of those holidays that is more of an annoyance to me. I suppose dressing up and trick or treating is fun but once it is over, it’s over. There isn’t much leading up to Halloween and the next day is the start of November. All I can think of is preparing for Thanksgiving then Christmas (only 8 shopping weeks!) and of course my birthday sneaks up on me. Following that is New Year’s and we start all over again!
It is just all downhill from here!
September 9th, 2009
I avoid putting crap into my body for the most part. In my house you will find raw milk and organic almost everything! My kids are so spoiled with the high quality of food that if I buy the waxy fruit, they won’t eat it. I do not adhere to any specific diet but simply watch what I put in my mouth.
Buying the higher quality of food can be expensive. I came across a co-op called Bountiful Baskets. I ordered from them last week and I was so impressed with the quality and the amount of food I received. You received 2 small laundry baskets of fruit and vegetable for $15. You also have the option of adding bread too! It is so simple and I can’t believe I haven’t done it before. They deliver to many locations so I am sure you will find one near you.
August 31st, 2009
I am in mom mode. My youngest has started a new school this year for 4th grade. I pulled him out of school after a rough experience in 2nd grade. In case you haven’t noticed, I am fairly hardcore. I am very impatient and am afraid of waiting. When it comes to my boys, I put myself right out there and get the job done. So, I withdrew him from school at the end of his 2nd grade year and enrolled him into an online school aka home school. I was extremely scared of what could happen with this but at the same very excited at what I wanted the results to be. The rocky experience in 2nd grade was not entirely the school’s fault, but they didn’t help much.
I am ecstatic report, my year of homeschooling was one of the greatest things I could have done for my youngest son. It wasn’t fun..it wasn’t easy. But the results are shining now. His new school is providing us with a much better learning experience. He definitely has aways to go, but there are no regrets for putting my business on hold and any other sacrifices that were made. The ease of this school year thus far is just amazing! Let’s not jinx this.
August 31st, 2009
I probably come across as someone who appears to be obsessed with sex. I truly believe the environment I was raised/educated has caused me to be very interested in sexuality. Not that I was raised poorly, just catholic.
I am not against religion if it works for you. I don’t think it worked for me. I could even venture to say it didn’t work for my entire family considering 3 of us were pregnant out of wedlock forcing one sister to marry at an extremely young age.
The education I recall was not even remotely informative enough to understand sex mentally. It was a simple ‘don’t do it until marraige’, ‘sex is bad’ and even thinking about it will send you to Hell.
I have been accused of over exposing my children. I guess I’ll see the difference of what some people think is over exposure and education to the extreme lack that I had.
Not obsessed and definitely not addicted… but wish I was.
August 27th, 2009
Typical Thursday for me. I attended my workout this morning only to come home to sit on my a** for computer work. If you are on my email list, get ready! Party specials will be emailed to you!
My party last weekend was a BJ workshop and lingerie. I had a blast with the ladies going over different techniques. I must say, it was one of my more fun parties. I arrived and the hostess was definitely the ‘hostess with the mostest’. I didn’t get the memo (or forgot) that it was a pajama party so to my surprise all the ladies were in pajamas and I am not referring to your mom’s nightgown!
I am planning a party for my personal contacts tomorrow at my house which includes Alise with Private Quarters . The purpose is to introduce my business to many of my friends or neighbors who still have never seen it. I have been in this business for 6yrs and many have not seen me in action! I love what I do and am excited to show them! I also hope to make some new friends too!
I hope you are excited for your weekend. Stay safe!
August 21st, 2009
It is going to be an exciting Cardinals season! I don’t know much about Football but I hear many of the Cardinals live near me (I think one can even see in my backyard). My point….I am the typical girly female who doesn’t keep up with football including the rules or anything really when it comes to football. I do know it is a popular time for men to get together and watch the game while the women either wait on the men or .. or..take care of the kids. I am the only female in the house and while I want to learn about the sport, I get easily distracted. It has taken several years with my husband to convince me to educate myself on the sport and every season, I learn a little more just to appease him. Because of this, I am actually excited about the upcoming season for the AZ Cardinals. It has taken me this long to realize how much he enjoys the sport and that he never watches a game on Sunday due to….well…I don’t really know why. This season, I vow to watch a few games with him on our small traditional T.V. while sitting on our brown leather couch surrounded by 3 hairy dogs and 3 talkative boys. This is what Sekse girls do!
August 20th, 2009
If you ask a man, he would most likely say he prefers his woman to wear lingerie to bed. Is it really always feasible for the woman? Is it comfortable? Yes and Yes! It may take some time to get used to but ease into it by finding lingerie that is similar to what you already sleep in. Start with a basic piece. If you are afraid of your little ones seeing you in it, keep a robe near by. Good luck!